# The List Before the Wedding: A Bhopal Story About the Roles Nobody Else Gets to Choose

> Vendor calls, a family comment about "final say," and an engaged couple working out which roles are theirs to choose.

Canonical URL: https://classic-bdsm.com/stories/the-list-before-the-wedding/
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Publication: Classic BDSM — an India-focused, adult-only, non-explicit educational resource.

## Scope

This page covers: the list before the wedding bhopal story.
Not covered here (see the linked pages instead): submissive wife; dominant husband; bdsm marriage; bhopal bdsm; first d/s relationship.

## Key concepts

- first D/s relationship
- pre-marriage disclosure
- boundaries
- chosen roles
- consent