# Dom vs Top and Sub vs Bottom

> A Dom is not automatically a top. A sub is not automatically a bottom. Two different questions, constantly answered with the same four words — here is how to keep them apart.

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## Scope

This page covers: dom vs top and sub vs bottom.
Also addresses: dom vs top; sub vs bottom; difference between top and bottom bdsm; can a sub be a top.
Not covered here (see the linked pages instead): dom vs sub vs switch; bdsm roles; domme meaning.

## Key concepts

- dominant
- submissive
- top
- bottom
- switch
- power exchange
- consent
- D/s

## Sections

- The shortest distinction (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#the-shortest-distinction)
- What "Dom" and "sub" describe (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#what-dom-and-sub-describe)
- What "top" and "bottom" describe (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#what-top-and-bottom-describe)
- Can a submissive top? Can a dominant bottom? (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#can-a-sub-top-can-a-dom-bottom)
- What does switch mean here? (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#switch-vs-versatile)
- Scene role vs relationship role (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#scene-vs-relationship-role)
- Why assumptions cause problems — and why none of this is consent (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#assumptions-and-consent)
- Which term should you use? (https://classic-bdsm.com/learn/dom-vs-top-and-sub-vs-bottom/#which-term-should-you-use)

Last reviewed: 2026-09-01